If you are going through a breakup, chances are that you're so distraught that you can hardly think in sentence form. You probably have phrases like "relationship broken problems" floating through your mind and you just can't seem to stop revolving around those phrases. While "relationship broken problems" is a perfectly logical way to think when you're in pain, there is some good news. As your pain begins to fade, the logical part of your mind will kick into overdrive again and you'll be able to think with more than three word phrases.
In the meantime, you still only have three things on your mind: Relationship. Broken. Problems. And when those are the only things you can think about, you surely will have broken relationship problems. When a relationship is broken, problems are bound to arise. At the time, those problems will feel like they are too much to bear. But over time, those problems will surely dissipate and "relationship broken problems" will be a phrase that you will never have to think about again.
There are a lot of ways for you to get over the pain of a broken relationship and to overcome the problems that that pain presents. First and foremost, you have to get your mind off your problems and try to think of something else. As you've already seen, normal logic does not apply during a breakup. So if you dwell on all of the reasons that your relationship is broken and on the problems you now have, you're going to make yourself more miserable than you were when you first broke up.
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