Russia warn USA and Israel

Barack Obama is backing away from crippling sanctions on Iran's central bank bank and an embargo on its oil trade. This was decided shortly before the International Atomic Energy Agency was due to confirm Tuesday or Wednesday, Nov. 8-9 that Iran's clandestine military nuclear program had reached the point of no-return, and after Israel intelligence experts found that Iran could build a weapon as soon as it so decided.
Four considerations persuaded the Obama administration to backtrack on new sanctions, thereby letting Tehran prevail in this round of the nuclear controversy:
1.  Because it is too late. Even the harshest sanctions would not alter the fact that Iran has arrived at a position wherbey it is capable of building a bomb or warhead any time it chooses.
2. Severe penalties against Iran's central bank and its fuel exports would exacerbate the turmoil on international financial markets.
The Los Angeles Times reported Tuesday, Nov. 8, "Though US officials had declared they would hold 'Iran accountable' for a purported plot [to assassinate the Saudi ambassador to Washington], they now have decided that a proposed move against Iran's central bank could disrupt international oil markets and further damage the reeling American and world economies."
Instead, say those officials, Washington will seek to persuade some of Tehran's key trading partners, including the Persian Gulf states, South Korea and Japan, to join existing sanctions.
3. For the first time in American history, Washington has admitted its military capabilities are constrained by economic concerns.
This constraint was also reflected in the Washington Post of Tuesday: "The possibility of a US strike is considered remote, however. That is partly because there is no certainty it would successfully stop Iran and partly because of the diplomatic and political repercussions for a cash-strapped nation emerging from two wars."
4.  Israel's Defense Minister Ehud Barak said Tuesday in a radio interview that he was not optimistic about tough sanctions because there was no international consensus to support them.
DEBKAfile's intelligence sources report that Russia and China would not only cast their votes against stiff penalties but disrupt them through marketing mechanisms they have already put in place for bypassing international restrictions on Iran's foreign banking and exports.
Those mechanisms have also been placed at the disposal of Syria.
Tehran has therefore been able to pre-empt the IAEA report, however damning it may turn out to be, and can continue to develop its nuclear objectives without fear of punishing sanctions.
The Israeli defense minister noted that while it would be preferable in matters as grave as a potential attack on Iran's nuclear sites to work closely with the United States, Israeli is a sovereign country and its government cannot shirk responsibility for defending its security.
Israel's existence was not at stake, Barak stressed - either from Iran's missiles or Hizballah's rockets. An attack would cause suffering on the home front, he said, but nowhere near the 100,000 mentioned in the speculation of the last two weeks – or even 5,000. He dismissed much of this speculation as wildly irresponsible and unfounded.
If sanctions against Iran fall by the wayside, all other options stay on the table, said the defense minister. Israeli is holding intelligence exchanges with some friends but in the last resort must make its own decisions which he promised would be made responsibly.
Prime Minster Binyamin Netanyahu no doubt intended to go through the motions of demanding tougher sanctions against Iran after the publication of the IAEA report. But that option has vanished from the Washington landscape, leaving Israel with a choice between a military strike or bowing to the Obama administration's acceptance of a nuclear-armed Iran and learning to live with this ever-present menace.
The same stark choice confronts Saudi Arabia and the rest of the Gulf.

Tips 2 Keep Eyes

Reading Always, Tips to keep the eyes, update this morning about Tips to keep the eyes for you. often we think it is easy to keep the eyes, eye turns to keep it very difficult tomaintain. As I myself was not easy to keep your eyes I guess. Reading always, try to give these health tips to you, who want tokeep your eyes from early on so that at the age that will come your eyes are still healthy.
Here are tips to keep your eye on the article this morning:
please refer to the well and in practice.

Eyes are the windows to the heart and the window of the world. With eyes, we could see everything. Of course, healthy eyes will give you more benefits. Unfortunately, healthy eyes are now hard at getting. Whether out of habit, the demands of work, or perhaps because of genetic factors. I myself live among the people who wore glasses, so I know exactly what to do to (at least) reduce or prevent the adverse effects of an unhealthy eye.
There are several things that must be considered to have eyes that are not only healthy, but also beautiful and charming, include the following.

   1. If you have not experienced eye disorders such as minus or plus, you should never read a book or watching in a dark place (not including the case of movies yes)
   2. Do not watch television or computer monitors / laptops within a range that is too close. Keep the brightness level on the lowest level. This is so that your eyes do not get tired quickly.
   3. Rest your eyes every 20-30 minutes or so if you work in a long time in front of the monitor screen.
   4.  If you are in an outdoor environment, always lingdungi your eyes with goggles. Because direct sunlight is not good for the eyes. In addition, the use of glasses can reduce the risk of smth.
   5.  If you have smth, do not dikucek roughly. The use of eye drops will be better than should be rubbed his eyes.
   6. Stay away from cigarette smoke.
   7.  Drink lots of water to the body's nutritional balance. Too much consumption of food or vegetables that contain Vitamin A. effects will be felt in a long time.
   8. Reduce time spent watching television. Something that excess is not good, right?
   9. Routine eye health check at least once a year.
 10. For those of you who use contact lenses, be sure kehigienisannya. Dirty contact lenses that will make the eyes uncomfortable and can be fatal risk.
 11. For those of you with glasses, glasses are clean will give better vision and facilitate the eyes. There is a special liquid to clean the glasses in optical nearby.
 12. Do not stay up. There are some people who will look like 'pandas' when she was sleep deprived.
 13. If the panda eyes already appear, use concealer to disguise it.
 14. Do not forget to dressing your eyes with eye shadow for all special occasions. For ordinary purposes, wearing only a thin layer. 

What Is JAVA

Reading Always - today from reading always willing to try to give a little history about the JavaProgramming. Actually youmust have a language like thisalready know many thingsfrom history until the operation of this program.

Java was born at the time of the research conducted by a number of Sun engineers inCalifornia in 1991. They make the project of making the programming language that can run on devices that have small memory size. In addition they also want a program can run on any platform, this is because each device has different manufacturing. At first, they named this project as "Project Green."
In his research project, the project succeeded in creating a Green Star 7 (*7), a software that can be used to communicate over long distances is very intelligent. Star 7 is made with the base language of C and C + +. After a while, James Gosling, one of the leadership team felt it had a shortage of both languages, so they agreed to develop a new language. Language they developed was named Oak, was inspired when James Gosling saw the oak tree across from his office. Because Oak has become the copyright of other languages, so they changed the name to Java. Java Naming himself was inspired when the team drank coffee in a coffee shop near their office. One of his team talk about the origins of coffee they drink is from Java (Java). Then the teams agreed to call it the Java language with the logo of a cup of hot coffee.

After they succeeded in creating Star 7, it's market share has not been so interested, so they look for another market share of Internet programming. Those directing the research to the development of the Internet because Java has a characteristic that is suitable for developing the Internet that has a small size, efficient, and portable. At the same time development of the Internet was so rapid, so that soon the Java has become popular among web developers. After their success with Internet programming, then they developed the Java programming to the desktop, mobile, client-server (network), and others.

4 Habbit triggers Acne

Reading Always - On the day this weekend, reading always try to provide health tips for those of you who currently confused as to why acne pad your face. Habits that may belom you know all this, one of the causes of acne that. Let's look at some tips to know habits that cause acne on your face.

It is often not realized, so the problem would not stop acne. As reported by the Total Beauty, Tony Nakhla, MD, dermatologist and author of "The Skin Commandments: 10 Rules to Healthy, Beautiful Skin", and Ava Shamban, MD, tells anything bad habits that could be a major trigger acne problems.

Using makeup with ingredients trigger irritation
All you need to know the main ingredients of the makeup greatly affects the health condition of the skin. Some materials are known very easily trigger irritation and acne. Here are some ingredients in cosmetics are very easy to make acne appear, so you can avoid it.
- Artificial Dyes: Look at the packaging, if there are writings FD & C mark cosmetics contain artificial dyes.
- Lanolin: Basically this is another name of sebum or oil. This formula is for dry skin and less precise when used on acne prone skin types.
- Isopropyl Myristate: This material does make the skin not too oily. But, also clog pores and cause skin irritation.
Making the face is too dry
Too often use wax paper or clean your face with soap foam will reduce excessive skin moisture. Although it may seem like a good idea to make oily skin becomes more dry cleaners are made from hard, foam soap, or alcohol-based toners, are in fact tend to be at risk of skin irritation.
Cell phone
Using a cell phone for long periods also trigger acne. Pressure when you use the phone instead of just holding the bacteria longer on the skin but also help him get into the skin. Bacteria is what makes skin so prone skin.
Soiled bedding
Do not underestimate your sleep hygiene tools, good pillows, bolsters and blankets. Humid conditions at room temperature, making the bacteria easily breed in tools sleeping. Always wash pillowcases and bolster including blankets and bed linen regularly. That's because the bacteria contained in the tool bed will move easily on the skin while you sleep can finally be acne triggers.

symptoms of stroke in women

Reading Always - update today article, read my article here If part of the human brain stops due to insufficient supply of oxygen will then work this deadly condition calledStroke. The overall stroke symptoms must not be seen in women. Therefore, in order to provide timely treatment for the patient, it is essential to know about the stroke and the symptoms in women.

Stroke is a medical point of apoplexy as known and it is a condition where blood supply is episodic, a part of the brain. The oxygen is through the blood cells in several parts of the body, the brain cells are also supplied. Therefore, blood and oxygen to the smooth functioning of all body organs and cells. At the time of the stroke attack, the blood supply may be interrupted because of the blockage or rupture of a blood vessel in one part of the brain.Ischemic and hemorrhagic strokes are the two types of. Ischemic stroke is the type of stroke, hemorrhagic stroke, a blood clot while, because come the rupture of blood vessels. It is dying because of blood and oxygen deficiency that causes the brain cells and the dysfunction that part of the brain. However, due to the lack of treatment does not completely brain and lead to delay in treatment to death. Stroke symptom for women is different than the usual stroke symptoms.

The most common symptoms of stroke in men and women can be seen are dizziness and problems with balance and coordination, sudden speech disorders or impaired understanding, blurred vision or difficulty with vision, numbness or weakness, usually on one side of the body, beginning of a sudden and significant headaches, mental confusion. All of these symptoms occur, stroke unexpectedly with a sudden outbreak. In women, symptoms of a stroke vary from the classic symptoms of a stroke or above. Generally the symptoms are pretty vague considered when a woman gets a stroke attack. These symptoms are usually different from the symptoms of stroke that are observed in the rule. Because of this striking and ambiguous symptoms, goes more often, stroke test diagnosed in women.Incorrect diagnosis of these symptoms thus leads to wrong treatment and thus causes severe complications. Therefore, it is important to know about thesigns and symptoms of stroke in women.

Sometimes the symptoms of stroke in women are so varied that the doctor misdiagnoses the problem and they might with some other health problems. Atypical symptoms of a stroke are also seen in humans, however, the proportion was higher for women.These symptoms are shortness of breath, convulsions, fainting and unconsciousness.

Panasonic's new point-and-shoot has dual lenses, 3-D capabilities

Most of us have grown so tired of 3-D movies by now that we wouldn't even consider shooting 3-D photos when we're out and about. But Panasonic's putting out a shiny new 3-D-capable Lumix point-and-shoot camera anyway.
It's called the Panasonic Lumix DMX-3D1 and — any disdain for all things 3-D aside — it's actually a pretty lovely little gadget. The camera has two 25mm ultra-wide angle lenses with 4x optical zoom, two 12.1-megapixel 1/2.3-inch sensors, and one very pocket-sized body.
The camera can capture 8-megapixel 3-D photos, 12-megapixel 2-D photos, and 1920 x 1080i HD video.
The Panasonic Lumix DMX-3D1 will set you back $500. It should become available sometime in December.

Voting with iPads: idea whose time is coming?

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Lewis Crew, 75, gets help from member of voter assistance team while voting on iPad, in Beaverton, Ore. (AP Photo/Rick Bowmer)
(AP)  SALEM, Ore. -- Oregon was first in the nation to have all residents vote by mail. Now it's pioneering another idea: vote by iPad.
Voters in five counties are filling out and returning their mail-in ballots for a Tuesday special primary election to replace former U.S. Rep. David Wu, who resigned following a sex scandal. A handful will mark their ballots not with a pen but with the tip of their finger.

It's the latest attempt at using new technology to help voters with disabilities cast ballots privately.

Armed with iPads and portable printers, county election workers are going to parks, nursing homes, community centers and anywhere else they might find groups of voters who have trouble filling out traditional paper ballots.

Using the iPad, disabled voters can call up the right ballot and tap the screen to pick a candidate, with or without the help of election workers. The voters then print the completed ballot and stuff it in an envelope to sign, take with them and drop in the mail or an official ballot box.

Voters with poor vision can adjust the font size and screen colors, or they can have the iPad read them the candidates' names and even the voter pamphlet. A voter with limited mobility could attach a "sip-and-puff" device to control the screen. Lewis Crews, 75, who has severe arthritis, didn't have to hold a pen to fill out his ballot.

"It's a lot simpler for me. I think it's a great setup they got," Crews told The Associated Press last week in a phone interview after he filled out and printed one of the first-ever iPad ballots.

Elections officials helped Crews operate the iPad, he said, "but now that I've seen how it works, I'm confident I can do it on my own."

State elections officials say they'll use the same system in the special general election in January. And if the pilot project is successful, they'll make the service available across the state. They believe Oregon is the first state to try using iPads to mark ballots.

Oregon officials decided to try iPads because their other equipment for helping disabled people vote is nearing the end of its life. The old tools, including laptops with various accessibility modifications, were hauled around in two suitcases and were difficult for election workers to set up.

About 800 voters used it in 2010, according to the secretary of state's office.

Officials hope the iPad's portability, simplicity and relatively low cost will make it easier to deploy to more places and reach more voters. People with their own accessibility tools like joysticks and paddles can connect them using Bluetooth wireless technology.

"Some people want to vote independently, and they're the ones that we're talking to," said Steve Trout, state elections director. "Others just want someone to help them, and that's fine, too."

Apple Inc., which makes the iPad, has donated five of the devices for the experiment, and the state spent about $75,000 to develop the software. Oregon would need at least 72 iPads, two per county, to bring the program statewide, Trout said.

At $500 each, the state could buy the iPads for about $36,000. Portable printers cost about $50 each, Trout said, or counties can use existing printers from their offices. The cost of software is still unknown.

In the last two-year budget cycle, Oregon spent more than $325,000 to maintain accessible voting tools.

Elections officials emphasize that, technically speaking, nobody is voting by iPad. Rather, they're using the device to mark a ballot that's dispensed from a portable printer and mailed to elections offices for counting, just a like a hand-marked ballot.

Federal law requires that people with disabilities have the same opportunity for access and participation in the voting process, including privacy and independence. That means polling places have to be accessible, and elections officials have to make accessible voting equipment available.

Curt Decker, director of the National Disability Rights Network, a Washington-based lobby group, said he's concerned that Oregon's iPad plan still relies on a paper ballot. Visually-impaired voters won't be able to tell if the printout matches their selections. Elections officials say the iPad can read back the voters' selections before the ballot is printed.

"Any time you start using paper, then people who are blind can't see it, and they would then need assistance. That's what we're trying to get away from." Decker said. "People with disabilities should be able to vote independently and privately. That is our goal."

The Hajj and Eid al-Adha

The Hajj pilgrimage draws millions of Muslims from around the world in 2011 year to Mecca, the birthplace of the Prophet Muhammad, Islam's holiest place. Saudi Arabia expects to host perhaps three million people in a ritual journey that every able-bodied Muslim who can afford it must make at least once in their lifetime. It is the largest annual gathering of humanity anywhere. Timed to the Muslim lunar calendar, the Hajj is followed by the celebrations of the three-day festival of Eid al-Adha, or the Feast of Sacrifice, which symbolizes Abraham's willingness to sacrifice his son. Collected here are photographs of the Hajj in Mecca, Saudi Arabia, as well as images of preparations for the Hajj and Eid al-Adha in many other parts of the Muslim world.

Wrong Reasons to Stay in a Relationship or Marriage

The fact that more than fifty percent of marriages end in divorce is actually the lesser of the problem. The greater difficulty lies in the fact that the majority of intact marriages are far from joyful.

Divorces are potentially scarring, at least provides the promise of better days. Remaining in an unhappy marriage, dulled by the absence of a more hopeful vision, can be downright depressing. And yet, so many people resign themselves to such lives.
                                                             Many people in such relationships merely give up and don’t work on improving their relations. I am by no means promoting divorce!  however,  we do every thing in our power to awaken our relationships and live more meaningfully. 

Let's look at some of the reasons why people decide to stay in a bad marriage or relationship:

The Fear Factor: 
Fear is the greatest impediment to growth in our lives. The fear of divorce and its incumbent anxieties or simply the avoidance of coming to terms with a relationship that may be lacking in intimacy, passion or respect. When you stay married out of fear, the emotional paralysis that pervades further poisons the relationship. Staying together out of resignation–due to fear–results in an enigmatic dilemma. Such people won’t consider divorce and yet they are convinced that their marriage won’t improve, so they don’t work on the relationship. This is the worst of all possible scenarios. They are literally caught between the rock and the hard place.

If you find yourself in this place it’s essential that you address your fears. The fear of divorce eliminates any chance of improvement in the relationship. It produces a state of frustration and make mediocre marriages even worse. If we can work through the fears around separation, then we are electing to stay in the marriage not from fear but from choice. 

Fear filters our perceptions and participates in constructing our reality. The way in which you see your partner is very much informed by your emotions, particularly anger. This anger may have arisen in part because you’re feeling mired in a hopeless relationship.

For the kids:
Ever hear of the saying, "Let's stay together for the sake of the children?" Couples who are in bad marriages will say that over and over again. You are staying together for the sake of the children. Really? Why, so the children can have two parents who don't get along, and so they can grow up in a dysfunctional home run by two parents who can't show love for one another?

"Do you realize, though, how children learn to love? They learn how to love a partner by watching their parents interact with each other. That is how children learn how to love. That is how children learn to communicate in relationships when they get older." 

One of the greatest things couples can do when they come in the door, is to run to their spouse and kiss them (and not the children) first. The child who sees this will start to see how you treat someone with whom you are in love. 

How many of you when you first walk in the door, will greet your child (or children), pet the dog and even grab some nuts out of the refrigerator before you will even go over and kiss your spouse? Your kids see this and they see it every time you do it.

So when you "stay together for the sake of the kids," you are basically making all the mistakes that a lot of other people have made. It may be the same mistakes your parents made, and that is why you don't know how to show love. 
If you and your spouse don't love each other, and you don't display love for one another, then that is what your child is going to learn about love and how to treat someone in a relationship as they move forward in life. 

That Lonely Feeling: 
Another weekend rolls around...but you have no one special to share it with. You get into your bed at night alone and wonder, “I’m a great woman/man. Why don’t I have a real partner to share my life with?” You might not see it…but on an unconscious level, the struggles of a BAD RELATIONSHIP may actually be more comfortable and familiar to you than the idea of being alone.
When you fear being alone, you’re much more likely to make bad choices and end up getting involved with and staying in bad relationships because it distracts you from feeling lonely.

Social Pressure:
Are a bunch of your friends married, engaged, or falling deeper into lasting, committed relationships? If so, this could have a strong impact on the way you're thinking and feeling. Seeing the love and luck that friends have in relationship can make you feel an intense level of pressure to find the right lasting relationship now. Your intense desire to have a great relationship will push people away. The person in your life may feel like you're more interested in the idea of a good relationship than you are in him/her and how she/he actually feelswhen their with you.

The Void:
If you believe that a loving relationship will ease the emptiness inside you, the harsh reality is that no relationship is ever going to be able to “fill you up.” Once the easy emotional connection and satisfaction of “new love” wears off... you'll find that you're not "filled up" after all and no matter what she/he does or says, ultimately it won't be good enough... or feel good enough for you.
This "void" is the very thing that makes you so vulnerable to the wrong relationships in the first place – it will lead you to get involved not because a relationship is right for you... but because you are driven to fill the void.

Guilt:
Your partner may use guilt to keep you involved in a relationship. This keeps you downtrodden emotionally in a relationship that is ultimately bad for you. Someone that manipulates your nurturing kindness to keep you hooked in an unloving relationship is not someone who truly loves you.

Jealousy:
Jealousy is a game one plays to keep you hooked by toying with your emotions and making you think that someone else wants what you have. The partner who manipulates your feelings in this way does it purposefully to control you and keep you hooked in a relationship.
Don't stay hooked – Don't stay controlled – Take back your own power and unhook yourself from someone who is controlling you. Free yourself for someone who will love and respect you in the manner you deserve.

How to Fix a Broken Relationship

    Top 10 Reasons for a Broken Relationship

1.  Decision Making
When 1 partner usually does all the decision-making from money and household matters, activities, holidays to friends, this can cause the other partner to feel inequality. This can result in an unstable and insecure relationship, and thus fail.

2.  Failure in Keeping Promises, Cheating and Lying
This often results in a breach of trust and is one of the top 10 reasons for a broken relationship. When this basic trust is broken repeatedly, problems will escalate and causes either party to want to stay away from each other. Couples who reconsile their differences have a sronger relationship.

3.  Isolation
A common reason for failed relationships is isolation from family and friends when the couple starts dating. The reason why couples isolate themselves from those around them is because of insecurity and fear. This results in instability and magnifies the problem, and thus a broken relationship.

4.  Traditional Beliefs

Traditional beliefs, such as ‘Men adore sex more than women’, ‘women are not active’, ‘women make less money than men’, can cause imbalance of power. If you or your partner believes in these thinkings, false expectations are being created, and thus cause a broken relationship.

5.  Low Confidence, Low Self-Esteem and Insecurity
One of the reasons that causes relationships to fail is that 1 partner does not feel worthy of being loved. This can lead to over-dependence on the other partner and onver-possessiveness, which is not healthy. To avoid broken relationship, you must have more confidence and build your self-esteem.

6. Does Not Have the Same Flow

If the couple is not in tune with each other’s needs, interests, desires, goals, future plans, sexual attitudes, and values, then a broken relationship is eminent. To prevent breakups, communicate with your partner of what you really want and who you really are.

7.  Ineffective Communication

A failed relationship can be a result of ineffective communication. If both you and your partner cannot share your feelings, thoughts, values, opinions, frustrations, and needs, you are setting up yourself for a broken relationship. Learn how to communicate with your partner effectively can help fix a broken relationship.

8.  Excessive Jealousy
Excessive jealousy is one of the deadliest reasons for relationship breakups. Jealousy can cause violence and abuse in relationships, which ends in broken relationships. Excessive jealousy may not be common in couples, but normal jealousy is.

9.  Abuse

Abuse is an attempt of 1 partner trying to control the other. This is the #1 reason why relationships are broken. Abusive relationships should be put to an end immediately, however, many people in abusive relationships stay for many reasons. Learning to love and trust again in this type of relationship is difficult.

10. Control

A cause of a broken relationship is manipulation and control over the other. Issues, such as name-calling, spying on the partner, requiring the partner to report to the other, and threathening, is not a loving behavior.

Relationship Broken Problems

If you are going through a breakup, chances are that you're so distraught that you can hardly think in sentence form. You probably have phrases like "relationship broken problems" floating through your mind and you just can't seem to stop revolving around those phrases. While "relationship broken problems" is a perfectly logical way to think when you're in pain, there is some good news. As your pain begins to fade, the logical part of your mind will kick into overdrive again and you'll be able to think with more than three word phrases.

In the meantime, you still only have three things on your mind: Relationship. Broken. Problems. And when those are the only things you can think about, you surely will have broken relationship problems. When a relationship is broken, problems are bound to arise. At the time, those problems will feel like they are too much to bear. But over time, those problems will surely dissipate and "relationship broken problems" will be a phrase that you will never have to think about again.

There are a lot of ways for you to get over the pain of a broken relationship and to overcome the problems that that pain presents. First and foremost, you have to get your mind off your problems and try to think of something else. As you've already seen, normal logic does not apply during a breakup. So if you dwell on all of the reasons that your relationship is broken and on the problems you now have, you're going to make yourself more miserable than you were when you first broke up.

Heal You Heart

Muslim Callender

Muslims Holidays Calendar 2011
February 2011		Friday	Milad un Nabi (Birthday of the Prophet), Sunni	Muslims all over the world remember, observe and celebrate the teaching of holy Prophet Muhammad. Milad-un-Nabi gatherings are held to spread the holy advent and sayings of Prophet Muhammad. It is also known as Birth of Prophet Muhammad.
March 2011		Wednesday	Milad un Nabi, Shia	Shia Muslims celebrate Milad un nabi (Birthday of the Prophet Muhammad) 5 days later.
June 2011		Thursday	Isra' & Mi'raj (27 Rajab 1431 H.)
August 2011		Wednesday	Ramadan Begins	The Holy month of Ramadan is the most sacred month in Muslim calendar. The Muslim followers throughout the world are required to fast each day of the entire holy month, from sunrise to sunset. The evenings are spent with friends, family and community meals are held along with special prayers to thanks the almighty God.
August 30 2011		-	Id-Ul-Fitr, Ramadan Ends	After the end of Ramadan month comes the most famous Eid al-fitr. On Eid day, Morning prayers are held in the mosque. Rest of the day is spent by visiting family, friends and distributing sweets.
November 2011		Tuesday	Eid-Ul-Adha
December 2011		Tuesday	Al-Hijira/ Muharram begins
December 2011		Thursday	Day of 'Ashura (10 Muharram 1432 H.)

Money Couldnot make Happy

Avinash was very happy that he got a job in Techworld International a reputed IT outsourcing company and it was a good job with a decent pay packet and other facilities. He was an eligible bachelor who didn't have any past in terms of relationships and he was desperately waiting for the girl divine. A few days into his new job and he came across the HRM named Anuradha. He knew instantly that it was true love and Anuradha was the one he had waited for all his years.

Being good looking, matured, earning and with a great sense of humour, it was not difficult for him to serenade the object of his affection. Soon the two started dating and an intense romance followed. Another two years went by and the two tied the knot with their parental consent. A long and memorable honeymoon in the Alps was something they both have planned for and they were delighted to see their plans getting fulfilled. In fact life was bliss till the mighty recession hit the world.

Avinash struggled to retain his job and finally lost it whereas Anuradha also relocated to another company which was far from their house. Initially Avinash was quiet confident of lapping up a job at the drop of a hat but soon the realization dawned on him that talent was not the only requisite for getting employment and he started getting impatient. Anuradha was working harder than ever to earn more and keep the flame burning in the kitchen. Somehow, Avinash managed to get a job at a lesser salary in a nearby company and started working really hard to support Anuradha.

They were devoted to each other and had no egos or rules that were imposed on the other partner. Every evening when Anuradha used to come home, Avinash used to serve her coffee and used to massage her feet, sometimes oil her hair and used to try and do anything to make her comfortable and relaxed after a hard day's work. Soon it used to be dinner time and after dinner Avinash used to leave for work as he worked in the night shifts. In the morning Anuradha used to get the breakfast ready for Avinash as he returned from work and she too used to try and do things to make Avinash happy though she had very little time as her office cab used to arrive very early because she had to travel a long distance to work.

Slowly the two started spending lesser and lesser time together. On weekdays, there was hardly any time apart from the few moments that they spent in the evenings and sometimes Avinash even worked on Sunday and other holidays to get in that extra bit of money and that meant no time together. Anuradha had a very good friend at workplace who used to travel together in the office cab too. He was really a fun loving person and Anuradha got along pretty well with him. Since they both worked together and shared the same timings this friendship only got stronger and special by the day. They used to talk for hours and hours after work as Anuradha was more or less alone at home. Sometimes they even went out on trips and shopping sprees together because Avinash had no time to be with her. Even if he was home on weekends, he used to sleep off most of the day and only Sudhir (the friend) used to give company to Anuradha.

Sudhir was good looking, rich and single and he treated Anuradha very specially. Anuradha didn't even realize when Sudhir became an integral part of her routine and now it was impossible for her to even stay without talking to him for a day or meeting him on the weekends. Avinash also realized this but he trusted his wife and knew that she spent time with Sudhir just because she feels lonely at home and Avinash was not able to provide her time for outings. He had complete faith in her and was sure that Anuradha won't cross the limits of friendship. One day Anuradha and Sudhir went for a long drive and Sudhir just refused to take a u turn. After a few hours of drive they reached Nainital and once reaching there, Sudhir declared that he was very tired and sleepy and won't be able to drive back the same day. At home Avinash was getting impatient because it was already near dark and Anuradha hadn't called him. 

Anuradha also felt nervous but couldn't get Sudhir to drive back and finally at 8 pm she called Avinash to tell him that she won't be able to return that night as she was stuck in a meeting with a foreign delegation and the meeting was likely to run after dinner too. She told Avinash that she will be home only the next evening as the office had arranged for a guesthouse nearby after the meetings. Avinash took her word and went to sleep though a great deal disappointed as he missed his wife on his rare off night.

In Nainital, Sudhir and Anuradha checked into a hotel and decided to spend the night there and leave for Delhi early next morning. They sat in their room talking and discussing their lives and soon Sudhir managed to pry open the concealed emotions of Anuradha and she let her lonelyness and lack of companionship flow out with her tears. Soon the emotions turned into passion and by the time the passion gave way to realization, Anuradha had crossed over to being infidel. She cried a lot but soon regained her composure and Sudhir told her to keep quiet and to stay balanced in her married life as well as love life.

"He is your husband and would never forgive you. He trusts you and he would never doubt that the business meeting was a night out with your lover. He is your responsibility and I don't stop you but I am your companion, I am the person who gives you happiness and good times so enjoy both the world Anu" Sudhir said as he helped her dress and get ready to leave.

After a few days Anuradha forgot the incident and the guilt feeling. However, Sudhir was now closer than ever and after the initial hesitation, she also started enjoying and juggling the two lives comfortably. Sudhir got more and more passionate about her and now he had started objecting to her relationship with Avinash and putting restrictions on her. He ridiculed her for being foolish and marrying a person who didn't love her. Anuradha felt very uneasy with this changed behaviour from Sudhir as she had given everything to him and she used to be very obedient and understanding to him. She started realizing the kind of love that Avinash provided her without any restrictions and doubts. She soon was overcome with guilt and though Sudhir warned her not to talk about their relationship to Avinash, one Sunday night she spoke out and told Avinash everything about Sudhir.



"Why could you not tell me immediately Anu?" Avinash asked coolly.


"I was afraid that you won't understand and will leave me." Anuradha cried.


"Is that all you could know about me in all these years of our relationship?" He asked.


"I am sorry, I was enjoying a lot and felt very lonely in your absence. Sudhir's presence just used to give me the happy moments that I wanted to have from you. I didn't realize how I ended up making one mistake after the other." Anuradha cried even more.


"Let's sleep Anuradha as we have a busy tommorrow and you need to leave for work early morning." Avinash said and rolled over to sleep.


Next morning Anuradha woke up at the ring of the alarm and didn't find Avinash at her side. She thought that he must have gone to the kitchen to make breakfast as was his habit on mondays. He always used to say that she should start the week relaxed and she again felt a few tears rolling down at his love for her.


There was no sign of Avinash when she returned from bathroom. 


"Avi, where are you?" She entered the kitchen calling out to him and to her surprize she found a small piece of paper pasted to the refrigerator door. 


"Goodbye Anuradha. You proved that my love was incompetent and not sufficient to keep you happy. God bless you and Sudhir. You will never hear from me again. Only yours, Avinash."

IPL 2010 - At The Match & After Party